The Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time (C)
Dear brothers and sisters,
What is it that Jesus says will not be taken away from Mary (cf. Luke 10:42)? What is this “better part” of which he speaks? The answer is really quite simple, and even obvious: the better part that will not be taken away is Jesus himself.
When the Lord came to the home of Abraham and Sarah, he came as a stranger and received hospitality; when the Lord came to the home of the two sisters, he came as a friend and received hospitality. The hospitality of Abraham and Sarah was rewarded with the promise of a son (cf. Genesis 10:10); the hospitality of Martha and Mary was rewarded with God himself, for what does the Word Incarnate speak if not himself (cf. Luke10:39)?
Martha extends hospitality to Jesus by welcoming him with her service, by becoming “burdened” with
something that no one has asked her to do and for which there is no urgency (cf. Luke10:40). When the Lord enters a person’s life, the order of priorities changes, and the first thing everyone needs is to know Him and meet Him, everything else comes after that.[1]
Mary understood this in a way Martha did not. It is not that Martha’s form of hospitality was unimportant, but it was misdirected.
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Georg Friedrich Stettner, Christ at the Home of Martha and Mary
We see this in that Martha is burdened,
which is to say her attention and energy was divided. Martha’s frustration with
her Mary’s lack of help arose because
It is not Martha who decides what to do, but the things that need to be done decide for her. And this is exactly the opposite of the verb used for Mary, who instead “chooses” (“Mary has chosen the better part” - Lk 10:42), that is, she is free to remain in what she thinks is good.[2]
And Mary is not wrong, as the Lord himself says, but how often do you and I let things decide for us what needs to be done, rather than you and I choosing the better part with Mary, to first listen to Jesus?
The hospitality Mary gave Jesus is different from that given by Martha. Martha attended to Jesus’ physical needs while Mary gave Jesus her ear. “It would be incorrect, however, to see these two attitudes as mutually exclusive, or to compare the merits of the two women. Service and listening are, in fact, twin dimensions of hospitality.”[3]
The example of these two sisters provides us with a model of how to be disciples of the Lord Jesus. Mary shows us the necessity of listening to the Jesus, of letting him speak to us before we do anything else. Martha offers us a warning of what can happen when we do not first listen to Jesus. “Martha complains about being left alone, and she feels that no one, not even the Lord, really cares about her” (cf. Luke 10:40).[4] Martha’s example cautions us that “if you lose the essentials, you lose communion; the other person, even if it is your own brother, is perceived as an enemy who is taking something away from you.”[5]
These two sisters show us the way forward. Whatever we do must begin with listening to Jesus, learning from him what must be done. Then, having listened to him, we must set out to love both God and neighbor so that, at the end of our lives, the better part will not be taken from us. Amen.
