tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10038924.post3259134829704761351..comments2024-03-15T19:18:22.881-05:00Comments on Servant and Steward: Marriage: It's not all about youRev. Daren J. Zehnle, J.C.L., K.C.H.S.http://www.blogger.com/profile/12695652221601203187noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10038924.post-63974882350101734852012-04-16T21:18:13.798-05:002012-04-16T21:18:13.798-05:00Another way to give couples the joy of a big weddi...Another way to give couples the joy of a big wedding at less cost might be to have them celebrate their marriages during regularly scheduled parish Masses, with the vows being said after the homily, and the parish then hosting a reception for them after Mass. <br /><br />It can be done and in fact WAS done right here in Springfield by Fr. David Hoefler at Blessed Sacrament, for a couple that were in the military, had to schedule their wedding on short notice and had few family members or friends in the area:<br /><br /> http://www.sj-r.com/news/x19928804/Dave-Bakke-Soldiers-strangers-celebrate-wedding<br /><br />ElaineAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10038924.post-81671998912787413412012-04-15T06:08:42.074-05:002012-04-15T06:08:42.074-05:00A very good read on Marriage!!http://drkellyflanag...A very good read on Marriage!!http://drkellyflanagan.com/2012/03/02/marriage-is-for-losers/CJDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03712388905946305690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10038924.post-15390533304705585782012-04-13T17:46:17.973-05:002012-04-13T17:46:17.973-05:00What Ellen said. Yep. Exactly. The wedding is o...What Ellen said. Yep. Exactly. The wedding is one day; the marriage (the sacrament) is for a lifetime.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17284905121465747077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10038924.post-53678565726965565812012-04-13T13:58:09.687-05:002012-04-13T13:58:09.687-05:00Love it. I always tell people, it's not about...Love it. I always tell people, it's not about the wedding, it's about the marriage. I can't stand that people go to so much effort to have a "perfect" day with out planning for what comes after the wedding - your "perfect" life. Guess what, it's not all perfect.Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02381445346226109566noreply@blogger.com